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10 lessons from 10 years of marriage
“Can long distance relationships work?” “Do long distance couples ever make it?” We see or hear these questions every week, and they make us sad – questions like these mean that lots of long distance couples are having doubts. The good news is long distance relationships can work, and they can last. We’re living proof […]
Continue readingE122: Anxiety about closing the distance
Listen – it’s a big deal, and if you don’t get at least a little worried about closing the distance, you’re in the minority. In this episode, we address a listener email about their worries and concerns about moving from the US to Denmark to close the distance with their boyfriend.
Continue readingWho Comes First: Your Family or Your Partner?
Is there a more awkward situation than being asked to choose between family and your partner? It puts “being between a rock and a hard place” into perspective! And yet, so many couples find themselves in the middle of this predicament, unsure of who should come first. It’s an awkward situation and we’re here to help!
Continue readingE121: When your partner throws a curveball…
We all think we know our partners and what our life with them is going to look like, at least to an extent. But what happens when your partner throws a curveball and makes a big announcement you never thought you’d hear? Maybe they’re gay. Maybe they’ve decided the don’t actually want kids or they […]
Continue readingCommunication in LDR: How Much is Too Much?
Talking to your partner can help manage your stress and alleviate your anxieties brought on by the global pandemic. However, deadly virus outbreak or not, being too emotionally dependent passes the point of support and can breed resentment. Excessive communication does not make up for the distance. Some may even say it’s potentially harmful.
Continue reading6 Ways You Unknowingly Hurt Your Partner
One way in which many people disrespect their partners, whether accidentally or not, is through emotional invalidation, which is simply the act of dismissing someone’s feelings. It can be as quick and casual as saying “You’re overreacting” or as degrading as saying “He doesn’t know what he’s talking about”.
Continue reading6 Ways You Can Show Up for Your Partner
Once it’s established that your partner loves you for you—all of you—it’s possible that some parts of your self-regulation and self-care routines can start to feel unnecessary. Getting complacent in a relationship is easy to do because essentially it’s about doing nothing, and it’s not long until resentment sets in.
Continue readingE110: Trauma in relationships, with Esty Rappaport and Orit Krug
This week, we welcome back two very special returning guests who specialise in trauma therapy from different approaches. You might remember Orit, from episode 89, and Esty from episode 91. Join in for an incredibly interesting conversation with two trauma experts who specialise in helping women and couples get past their trauma to help improve their relationships. […]
Continue readingE106: Fresh starts for your relationship
Happy New Year! We’re back for our first episode of 2021, and this week the focus is goals and fresh starts for your relationship. From sharing some details on our individual goals and goals as a couple, this episode is all about fresh starts. Maybe you want to take on a challenge as a couple […]
Continue readingE102: Inappropriate Behaviours in Relationships – Unrealistic Expectations
Expecting too much of your partner, or having out of this world, unrealistic expectations within your relationship can cause real problems, and a world of hurt. In this episode, we discuss what constitutes as unrealistic expectations and the effects that they can have on your relationship.
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